Give Your Business A Gift
By Claudette Rowley
"I challenge you not to get lost in your own growth - the
purpose of your transformation is to radiate your gifts in the
service of others."
We each arrive in this world bearing a set of gifts that is
uniquely ours. During this season of gift giving, I invite you
to take a look at gifts that don't require wrapping - the ones
that are innately yours.
How do gifts relate to entrepreneurship?
Entrepreneurship is an act of capitalizing on the ways in which
we are gifted. At its finest, entrepreneurship asks us to
capture that which we do the best, harness it and put it out into
the world in some form or fashion.
I'm convinced that fully acknowledging your gifts - to yourself,
first and foremost - will catapult your business and your life
into bold new arenas. Here's why: When you don't acknowledge
your gift of, for example, building businesses or transforming
houses or connecting people, you hold back from full self
expression. When you don't acknowledge your gifts, you can't
capitalize on your innate human resources. YOU are your
business' most valuable resource.
What stops us from taking full advantage of our gifts?
Judgment is the number one wet blanket. Just as
your gift starts to burn brightly, judgment comes along and
throws a heavy blanket over the flame. In our world, it's
perfectly acceptable to wax at length about our failings,
misfortunes and weaknesses. We rarely speak openly about our
gifts and accomplishments without qualifying them. "Well, I
guess I am an okay painter. But it's just a little hobby, and
Betsy is much better."
We are taught not to "brag". How did telling the truth about
oneself become the equivalent of bragging? And because we are so
afraid of being "full of ourselves", we don't even admit the
significance of our gifts to ourselves.
Judgment can also surface in the form of rules about your
talents. For example, "I am gifted in this way, but not in that
way. I should be gifted in that way." "Well, I do have a gift,
but it's not good enough." As if some gifts are legitimate and
some aren't. Environment can also play a big part in the
perception of your gift's legitimacy. In some families, being a
talented businessperson is honored and being of an artistic bent
isn't. In some families, the reverse is true.
Some gifts are overlooked because they
aren't tangible the way music or writing can be heard and seen.
We sometimes assume that a gift must be a form of external
brilliance like that of a composer like Mozart or a painter like
Picasso. Maybe your form of brilliance is the impeccable balance
you keep in your life, maybe it's a spiritual relationship you've
developed or maybe it's your ability to manage people in a way
that inspires them to be their best.
Other times, gifts are overlooked simply because they come so
naturally. I've often heard people who are, for example, gifted
networkers or natural musicians downplay their gifts by saying,
"Oh, it's just this thing that I do." Notice the next time
someone compliments you, and you respond with the equivalent of
"Oh, it's just that thing that I do." How could you respond
Sometimes we assume that in order for something to be a gift,
and to be worthwhile, it requires hard work. Actually, the
reverse is true. A gift begins as a form of ease. A gift begins
to feel hard when we judge it and don't honor it for what it is.
What do you do most naturally? Get a good sense of your gifts.
Ask trusted colleagues and friends for feedback about your gifts,
both tangible and non-tangible. How do you use these gifts in your
business right now? How would your business change if you fully
honored and incorporated your gifts?
It's extremely easy to overlook our own gifts and take them for
granted. Do you have the gift of gab? Do you have the gift of
turning nothing into something - in other words, the gift of
transformation? Each one of us possesses a multitude of gifts,
large and small. In order to enhance your business success and
life fulfillment, make sure you know what yours are.
You are the biggest resource your business has. This holiday
season, give yourself the gift of profound self-acceptance.
Explore your gifts. Acknowledge and accept them. And watch the
miracles of your season unfold.
Copyright 2009 By Claudette Rowley
Claudette Rowley, Coach and Author, helps entrepreneurs harness their potential and soar to new heights
Co-author ~ A Guide To Getting It: A Clear, Compelling Vision
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